8/17/2017

topic 157: Can I still ever love again? (episode 3)

Can I still ever love again?
Start with the EPISODE 2 HERE
The fact that he or she lets you down doesn’t guarantee every other person you meet in life will treat you the same way. What happen in your last relationship was only a means for you to learn something from someone or some set of people.
This kind of event should make you strong and well prepared for a better relationship that is yet to come. Trust me, if he or she was perfectly meant for

8/11/2017

topic 156: The True Meaning of Life

The true meaning of life
The true meaning of life is not defined by the luxury we gather in life; it is not the number of wives we have; it is not the number of greatness we achieve; it is not the peak or position we attain in life, it is not in the fame we have; it is not in the number of degrees we get;
it is not in the amount we store in the bank or the wealth we gather and hoard; it is not in the pain we suffer, the disappointment we get from others, neither is it defined by our present individual status. The true meaning of life is the actual life or the moment after death closes our eyelids.

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The true meaning of life can never be found in this present life. The true meaning of life can never be fully understood as a mere man. The true meaning of life can only be found in the life after the life itself (the life after death).

The amazing thing about the true meaning of life is that each and every one of us will get different definitions after we pay our inevitable debt. The different definition will depend on the way we live our lives today and it is at that moment we’d know that life is simply vanity. If all you do is to inflict pain on other people, don’t expect anything less for yourself in the next life. If all you do is to maltreat the poor, don’t expect something better than that when your time is up here. In a nut-shell, every human defines his or her life after death, by the way he or she lives this present life. 

This piece is dedicated to a great friend of mine who just left me so early in this cruel and wicked world. I love you Gideon Damilare Ososanya.  I feel the pain in my marrow. It should not have been you, but can I question God? Sleep in the Lord, and we would meet there with a smile on our faces one day. Your sweet memory lives on. I love you bro…

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8/04/2017

topic 155: Can I still ever love again? (episode 2)

Can I still ever love again? (episode 2)
Start with the EPISODE 1 HERE
To let go, sometimes, is not a sign of weakness but of wisdom and maturity. At some point, you’ve got to let go after you have tried your best holding onto it, yet he or she has refused to be persuaded. The fact that he or she ditched you for another doesn’t mean you are inferior to the other guy.
You need to starts seeing more values within yourself and place yourself above any inferiority complex.   
You don’t have to hurt or kill yourself because the partner leaves or dumps you. 

What is meant for you will definitely not elude you if you are on the right track. It comes back even if it runs miles away. It is not a crime to be disappointed or let down by people, but it will be a huge mistake if you let the disappointment sway you off the path that should prepare you for the better and beautiful things that are yet to come.

Let him go, he is not the only handsome rich dude out there. Forget about her; there are other one million and one pretty girls out there. Though love can truly be beautiful, in the same vein it can be destroying if you would allow your heart to rule over your head.

CONTINUE WITH THE episode 3 here

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topic 154: Can I still ever love again? (episode 1)

CAN I STILL EVER LOVE AGAIN?
“Can I still ever love again?” This is a rhetorical question that comes once in a while in a life time of a person, irrespective of the gender. It is quite unfortunate!
It does not just come unless the person has reached the pinnacle of giving up on love, especially when such unfortunate individual has invested so much (love, time, material, spirit and soul) into the relationship.

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I have ignorantly been in this shoe before; I know how it feels when love let you down. This is a topic I have always shy away from, not because I have not gotten over it, but because I don’t want to remember the moment again (But can I truly run away from my past? Smile! Maybe I would run away from this).  I wouldn’t have worked on this topic if not for a recent scenario that happened to a friend of mine who surprisingly got jilted by a girl he thought loved him so much.

I realized many people have been a victim of this, or better still, many people are still suffering from the unpalatable consequences the unfortunate event might have brought their way. Be patient, garner strength and read through this article as it may help you in overcoming such circumstances.

One thing is to fight, another thing is to fight right. You don’t fight and win a battle that is never your own. You only fight a battle that you are convinced of without any iota of doubt. Conviction is not even enough, but applying wisdom is the most crucial. What I simply meant by this statement is that: “You have got to know the juncture in your journey of life, of love and of relationship when you have to drop a goose chase after a disappointment from your partner (or any other unfortunate event only understood by you)”. 

Continue with the EPISODE 2 HERE
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7/30/2017

topic 153: The round table of life

The round table of life
To the rich guys out there who brag, ridicule and belittle the lesser ones; to the wealthy ones who are intimidating the less privileged; to the money hoarders who believed so much in the power of their money; to those who maltreat others because they feed from the stipend you pay them, be careful.


For a wise man, the last thing you want to underestimate in life is the potential in every human being. The table of life is not constant; it turns around. That hopeless boy, girl, man or woman that you see today can be your hope for tomorrow. Within a twinkle of an eye, the tattered man you saw yesterday in the miry clay can be the one that will build a castle on the rock tomorrow.
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Life turns around. It can turn either ways (good or bad). That is just the irony of life. Few years back, Jack Ma (Alibaba CEO) was only a forgotten English teacher from nowhere.  Steve Job was collecting coke bottle for money and walk miles just to eat free lunch in a temple. Cristiano Ronaldo was the rejected last son of a poor ex-military man. Lionel Messi was serving tea in a tea shop just for money. Barrack Obama was once one Kenyan village boy. Alberts Einstein was too dull for school. These are few examples among many others. When the mysterious table of life would turn around for these people, they became what we call “phenomenon”.  

The least you see today, the hopeless ones you see around you, and the forsaken ones in your environment can, one day, be among the greatest tomorrow. Never use the outward appearance to judge any man. Never use the present status of a man to undermine what the person could be tomorrow. The outside might be minority, but the inside might be magnanimously big beyond human comprehension. It is just a matter of time and chance.

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7/25/2017

topic 152: When you think God is deaf?

When you think God is deaf?
I don’t know what you are passing through right now, but I know you might be in a kind of situation that is making you ask if God was (or is) deaf, despite your unceasing prayers. You have cried to him severally, and it seems
He is not even looking towards your direction. You have been frustrated to the point of questioning the existence and the

7/20/2017

topic 151: We all have our hidden sins

We all have our hidden sins
Perfection is uncommon in humanity. We all have our dark side. The hidden secret of us we wouldn’t want another ear to hear. The atrocities we have committed or we are committing secretly, that nobody but God knows.
 The side I may not tell you, and the side you will never tell me. So who are we to hold unto the open sins of others? Who are we, that we would stand so firm and rigid on the mistakes of others as if they have committed the worst? Better to

7/13/2017

topic 150: Living larger than life? Stop faking up realities

Living larger than life? Stop faking up realities
Stupidity can be the best term to describe it when your extravagant expenses (just to impress people) are far more than your petty income. You envy the lives of those stars and celebrities, but you have forgotten most of them are living nothing but fake lives;
they face reality at the corner of their room. Why not try to be yourself and work diligently to achieve those big dreams you