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TOPIC 27: THEY PRETEND TO BE FRIENDS, BUT YOUR FAILURE MAKES THEM HAPPY
At first, they try to shower love on you. They pretend to be nice and kind towards you, but deep down there, they desire no good for you. Not all friends are bad, but there are few hypocrite and pretenders among them. They are the ones that become sad when you do things better than they do. They are the ones that feel sad for no concrete reason when they hear you did something they couldn’t do.
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They are the ones that swiftly, but only, give you a call when they heard you did something great and remarkable. Be careful because they didn’t call to celebrate with you. They did just to confirm if the news they heard was true or not. They get sick when they heard you did something they know they wouldn’t achieve in their life time,but they get excited when they heard something bad happen to you.
You need not to be perturbed and daunted by their attitude. You don’t need to hate them, neither do you need to snub, scorn nor discard them. The most important thing is for you to be sensitive enough to detect them among your company. Learn to deal with them wisely.
Any attempt you make to do something good gives them an inexplicable aches. Don’t mind them, don’t mind their attitude. Be their friends and embrace them with your whole heart, but remember to draw a line towards them and be mindful what you tell them per time.
Some of them often advise you when things go wrong for you. They are always right there to sympathize with you when things are rough. That is what they are good at; it is what gives them joy. When they give you 1001 reasons to cry, give them 1,000,001 reasons to smile. Be sensitive enough to know them. If it is possible, let them know 95% of the bad things that happen to you, but give them 5% of the good news you have. It is not that you are naive; it is not that you are afraid of them. It is for you to have a breather space to continue your progression without distractions.
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